Receiving signs from loved ones passed on
- aal_blake
- Apr 6, 2021
- 6 min read
Updated: May 20, 2023
In the video below, I talk about all the ways I have personally connected with my loved one passed on and how the experiences played out. These are all my own personal experiences and feelings on the topic. I truly believe our loved ones live on and can in fact contact us and bring through signs and messages from the other side. By sharing this I hope to encourage others to reach out to connect and receive some support and confidence.
Allow yourself the time to grieve and process your own emotions. You must let yourself grieve, no matter how long it takes. You will know when the time is right and you are ready. You will be in a different space in your mind allowing for the connection to take place.
Not putting a time limit on the signs we ask for. It's hard when we want so badly to hear from our loved ones that have passed on. I have found that there have been many different stories in which people's loved ones have reached out to them at different times and lengths. My sister was able to reach out to me right after she passed. This also leads me to believe there is no specific time limit in which our loved ones can reach out to us. Be patient and open when asking for signs. Ask and release. Try not to keep asking over and over but to ask for one specific sign and to wait.
Be open and willing to receive the signs that are given to you. I have asked for and received very specific signs from my sister. I have also received signs through other people and synchronicities as well. Pay close attention to the way you are feeling when you receive this sign. You will know deep down that this is a sign and is meant for you. Trust that what you are receiving is from your loved one and not made up in your mind. Journal and record your experiences to keep a way to remember and look back at the signs that you received and what they meant to you. This can help with validity if you are having trouble believing these signs are true.
Don't be hard on yourself or overwhelm yourself if you aren't receiving the sign you asked for. Allow for things to unfold by asking for a sign and then waiting. Don't try to have control over the situation and cause frustration. I can't say for sure how things work or why they do, I can only speak from personal experience. Don't be afraid they won't reach out. Your loved ones can hear you and do want to connect with you. Who knows what's going on where they are? Be patient and open, giving them time to adjust and be able to send the signs you are asking for.
Ask for specific messages such as numbers that are special to you, animals or bugs, symbols, or songs. I know that our loved ones can hear our messages and I know they can reach out and touch us, letting us know they are still watching over us from somewhere beyond life. My sister has reached out several times with specific signs I have asked for, so I encourage you to do the same! you can ask for anything that would be special to you and that person.
Ways Spirit can reach out to us:
-Music has certain songs that could be special to you both or a song with a lyric that feels like it is speaking directly to you. Pay close attention when you have these intuitive feelings. When you feel it, allow yourself to truly feel it. These could be messages from our loved ones reaching out to us.
-Strange behaviors from animals and insects. Unexplainable interactions with birds, bees, butterflies, rabbits, really any kind of animal or insect. This can be accompanied by intuitive feelings. I have had strange encounters with rabbits, butterflies, cardinals, as well as hummingbirds, and spiders.
-Numbers that can be special to you and your loved one such as birthdays, anniversaries, and such, or numbers that seem to be repeating could be a sign your loved one is reaching out to you.
-Dream visitations are common after losing a loved one and can be one of the easiest ways for them to reach out to you. They can visit in your dreams as well as people who are close to you who would be able to relay a message to you that your loved one was visiting. I find darker dreams that are heavy and can be scary are not dream visits from our loved ones but manifestations from our subconscious because of worries and fears caused by what happened to our loved ones. I do not believe our loved ones are suffering on the other side and would visit us to show us the torment or hurt and pain they are experiencing on the other side. I feel as if my sister is in peace and is truly happy now.
-Spiritual contact, feelings, sensations, and unexplainable experiences may occur. Feelings as if your loved one is near or talking telepathically to you. I have received messages by connecting with my sister through the mind. When you receive a message in your mind that seems to be coming from a loved one, you can trust it by tapping into your feelings and exploring where these "thoughts" are coming from. Allow yourself to converse mentally for as long as your loved one stays connected, asking them whatever comes to mind. Be open and receive whatever the message seems to be. I would write my experiences down and look back at them later because I found it very difficult to remember anything after I was done. I would fear that I was making it up but after receiving validation I have no doubt in my mind now. You may feel as if someone is near, feeling sensations such as cold or hot flashes of air from an unexplainable source. Light touches the head, arms, or legs. You may feel chills or tingles on the skin that could feel warm or cool. Unexplainable experiences such as objects moving on their own, seeing loved ones as spiritual beings, and objects coming up missing.
-Synchronized events that happen that make you feel you are at the right place at the right time. Look for signs and messages when you get these intuitive feelings that your loved one is reaching out to you. Random scrolling on the internet has led me to posts and quotes that were very personal to me and helped me at that very time to have some healing or closure. I had our gas company deliver us gas and our driver's name was Taylor Jo. His first name started with Jo and his last name was Taylor and so on the ticket, it read Taylor Jo. That to me is a synchronized event that leads me to a sign my sister is watching over us. Also, validation through others we come into contact with if they say something that catches our attention or something that feels as if it resonates with us could be our loved ones reaching out through that person. My daughter has experienced dream visits from my sister and my other daughter has actually witnessed seeing my sister around us.
-Random, unexplainable smells that remind us of our loved ones could be a validation that they are connecting with you. If you smell something off, and can't find the source, it could be your loved one. This could be accompanied by the intuitive feelings of your loved one being around.
-Tarot and Oracle cards are a great way to bridge a connection with spirit and receive messages from our loved ones who have passed on. You can choose a more traditional tarot deck and start there, or there are many many many different oracle decks to choose from. Some are specifically for connecting to loved ones on the other side. A quick Google search should help out. Make sure to find a deck that you feel connected with and can understand the messages being given.
Always send love and support to your loved one. Give thanks for the signs received and for the love and support they are always providing to us from the other side. Connect with your heart space and send them your love and support anytime you miss them or want to connect with them. Each time I think of my sister I try to send her a little love and let her know I am thinking of her and that I miss her dearly. Live with honor for your loved one by doing your best each and every single day you are given. Life can be hard and it can be so easy to lose your way, but just know our loved ones want to see us living in a place of peace and happiness. They are watching over us, and want good things for us. Carry on their name and good spirit by living with kindness and understanding in your own life. Live in the now, Love in the now!
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